Finding a soulmate isn’t the easiest thing in the world for most people. Most think that it’s a magical phenomenon that only happens in Fairytale land! But what very few people realize is that it is probably one of the easiest things to manifest. The hard part is to see whether a guy is marriage material or not! Of course, once you read this article it will be way easier…
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10 – He thinks you’re funny even though all your friends just roll their eyes whenever you make an attempt at humor.
Yeah, this means he’s got some of the same funny bone elements in his body too! Someone who laughs at even your stupidest jokes is definitely a person you want to have around in your life – for a long time.
9 – He even loves your cats even though he’s a dog person himself.
Of course, if he’s allergic to cat hair you’ll have to give him a break; but if he respects your love of feline creatures even though he doesn’t necessarily like cats himself, then this one’s a keeper.
8 – He’s great at bringing you back to earth when you’re in one of your moods…
Having a level head around when you’re not in the best of moods is one of the luckiest things that can happen to you. He’ll allow you to let off your steam while supporting your emotions and calming them down at the same time. Magical!
7 – But, he’s ready to jump on the emotion bandwagon when the situation calls for it.
This is important because you want someone who can express him emotions without fear. Respect him if he’s angry about something at work, or if he cries because his dog’s just been diagnosed with a terminal illness.
6 – He’s down with your personal hobbies.
A guy who’s willing to gift you sky-diving lessons on your birthday because you once mentioned it on a date – even though he won’t even climb step ladders – is definitely marriage material.
5 – He’s not afraid of PDA.
A lot of guys won’t let you show public displays of affection, but if your guy allows it, that means you’re his special girl and he has a place for you in his life.
4 – He’s not jealous of your other male friends.
Sometimes, this type of jealousy is a good thing because it shows that he’s really keen on an exclusive relationship. However, such jealousy can lead to problems later on. With a guy who trusts you (now there’s something you don’t hear too often!), that’s never a problem.
3 – He actually brags about you and what a great gal you are!
Yeah, this is definitely husband material. He’s so proud of you that he’ll talk you up to his family, his friends and even his colleagues at work.
2 – He already knows your personal habits.
If a guy can get so close to you that he knows your personal quirks, that means he’s ready to commit. Does he tell them to hold the onions on pizza night because he knows you don’t like them? Is he even aware that there is such a thing as pizza night? Those are all clues.
1 – He doesn’t shy away from joining in your familial duties.
This is the biggest sign. If he cares enough about you to come with you to see your grandfather at a nursing home, then you know he’s the one.
Whether spotting a marriage material guy is the same as finding a soulmate is a question only you can answer.
A husband-material guy will not necessarily do your bidding, but he’ll respect your habits and ways. He may not fall all over you all the time, but he’ll be there for you whenever you need him. He’ll support you physically, emotionally and even spiritually. He’ll see your point of view before you have to point it out. He does a million things that make you happy, and gives up millions that make you sad. He’s a friend, a confidant, a lover, a role model, an admirer and a silent pillar rolled into one.
He’s the guy you should be with.