Dating has indeed become global, and finding a soulmate on that scale can be rewarding if managed well, and conversely, heart-breaking if not. Those who are contemplating on how to find love beyond their physical borders (especially for people who are still single after 40) should weigh the pros and cons of a cross-cultural relationship before getting into one. It is tempting to get into such relationship out of desperation, but to address your personal quest of "how can I find love," you will have to decide whether you can get comfortable with the disadvantages for you to enjoy the benefits of dating expats: The Pros: You get to develop interpersonal skills. Learning how to get along with people from entirely different world